What often happens when using EAM (The Energy Alignment Method) is, we have tears, emotion seems to come out of nowhere, unexpected and the tears flow. I’m always happy to see this, well not ‘happy’ exactly,  just that it’s a good thing. A needed release and often it’s when a real truth is uncovered, a realisation of something that is true that is not what we wanted to hear or feel.

This has happened to me with parents many times, especially when we ask questions like  “Are you aligned to parenting?”,  “Are you in flow with parenting?” or  “Are your children your responsibility?”, or variations on that them “Are you responsible for your children’s life choices?” or “for their life?”  If I ask that kind of question before using EAM, consciously I get the answer “Of course I am”. I agree we are here to be responsible parents (and look at that word response-able, so many parents aren’t able to respond, they react or even over react that’s another post for another time)  We are here to do sensible things for and with our children and keep them safe, though THEY are responsible, ultimately for their choices, their journey, their life and this is often when using EAM and we ask these kinds of question we get a No response, we are not aligned, or in flow and ultimately we are not totally responsible for our children.  The sway say nay!  That can confuse, shock or move the client to tears. It is an uncovering of a truth about our children. They are not ‘ours’ their life isn’t ‘ours’  I love Kahlil Gibran’s  words on this …

Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.

They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,

which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

Everything is energy, can’t be created, or destroyed, is in form, through form and always will be. This helped me understand our children are energetic beings in their own right, souls, spirit, on their own journey and mutual agreement was made long before they ‘manifested’ here they would be our children and we would be their parents. We chose to be part of each other’s journey. As parents we do not have control over them, not necessarily know what’s best for them. They have, as we all do, their own specific life journey and way of living and being, individual to them. Our children have their own unique brilliance, let them shine and reach their full potential, instead of trying to squeeze them into something we think they should be.

EAM has helped me help parents get clarity on lots of questions about themselves and their children. What is best to do and not do. Always asking is it safe and appropriate and in their highest good and when appropriate stepping into their children’s energy.  When children are introduced to EAM at a young age, they have a brilliant tool to help them cope with any unwanted or unpleasant feelings they may have, they learn they can be in control of how they feel and feel better quickly and easily and they enjoy it.

EAM can help make parenting so much easier 😊